I noticed that some friends whom I have re-connected with would ask a lot of questions. Ah well, that’s just the way it is. But many would not answer their own questions or voluntarily offer information. Most would just summarize years of absence in one word to answer my “How have you been?” question. Okay. They are okay. Okay? Just okay? Okay lah. Okay then. That’s it. And usually there will be the question, “You kat mana sekarang?” as to either korek about workplace or whereabouts (residence). But sayangnya not many would sound happy and proud that they are where they are.
Why ah?
If I am happy with what I am, how I am and where I am, and I am happy to tell you that I am…am I arrogant?
If you are not excited to tell me about what you are, how you are and where you are…are you just being humble?
Desiderata, desiderata.


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