Even twins, triplets and multi-plets are delivered ONE at a time. Sudahnya kita ni karang pun, tak lah sekubur berdua. So, there’s nothing bad about being our age and still single. I mean it. No matter what the reasons are; be it your broken heart, your serik heart, your sexual orientation, your financial situation. Jodoh pertemuan tu kerja Tuhan. Don’t feel bad about not having a husband/wife. You alone, are complete. A spouse enhaces your existence, yes. He/she does not complete you.
Besides, ‘complete’ is a very subjective adjective – a perception, a shared concept. You give the word its meaning. Others may or may not agree with you. Some may even ask why you are not married, and quite a few may offer help, service or advice. Tell them you are single, complete in your own standard, and happily so. If they question you, ask them to question God because you don’t. Ta mim ta.
Questa è Enida 
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