Just when I thought I could not break any more, I received this today…
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My response was…
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Babe, I don’t like the way you write to me. As though I have no feelings. You have forgotten the first years of our marriage when I cleaned our place top to bottom, made you breakfast on your way out to work and loved you with all my heart. Give yourself and Elena 5 years before you write to me again.
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How dare you compare! What you wrote is just like what you did about Ms X. When a new person comes along, nothing about me is ever good anymore.
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I take you the way you are. Good and bad. Even if this was the end of us together, I would never compare you to the next man in my life. It is very immature and cruel.
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Let’s just focus on Kitreena and Edrick. I have no interests in who treats you right or whom you treat right.
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Ms. You-know-me
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I thought I would break a little more today. But I didn’t. For God has made me from water. With tears in my eyes, I now just flow. Away.
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Oh… lest I forget, please remind me that my future is already with me. Me Monchies. My sun and my moon who make me nothing less than the brightest star.
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I have found my true north. I am home.
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Letters like this enida are best replied in our mother tongue. If only he understands bahasa melayu, (the bset language in the world by the way) banyak sikit perkataan yang boleh diguna pakai untuk describe orang2 tak reti bahasa macam ni.
Just flow away Enida, far far away and say weeeeeeeeeeeee good riddance instead of goodbye.
I’m so sorry to hear about this. I feel for you. But i think that his words are just mean, while yours was more diplomatic, and more mature. It’s best in situations like this that you have taken the high road. (clap, clap!)
People say that s**t happens in threes, but so do blessings. You, Edrick, Kitreena are the three blessings and liberated from this spitefulness. Rather than living in hatred and pain, I pray that all of you are better off being happy together.
Dear Kak Enida,
I understand how you feel. I have been thru’ “bad divorce”, and he left me for a woman 8 years older than me-three times divorced kind of women! And yes, compare me like those 8 years of marriage and 3 kids along the road, means crap to him. They got married and they were divorced in 2 month. Padan muka to them.
But I am happy now with my 3 kids and my new life. InsyaAllah, things will be okay with you..
Kak Enid,
Hang in there. A year ago when I was struck by similar incident, you gave me a life motivation kit in 3-4 line of sentences. I am not the queen of words like you, but in plain English, I have to say that by making the comparison he has shown his worth..He is not worth loving!
You take care.
Love u. 😉
babe. I am sending you a big hug. and so much love.
Enida
You have edrick & kitreena-Anugerah Allah yang tak ternilai.
Hi Enida!
Sending you some hugs from Malaysia *hugs*
hang in there yeah 🙂
Hope youre doing OK…
That comparing part hurts so bad. That is so immature, like you said.
trust men to blame the women when they cant see their own faults. *geram*