It wasn’t very nice of me judging her too quick like that. Afterall, I am about to live a life similar to the one she has led for years. Bad Enida, bad Enida! Oh but she was talking about her friend’s penis! For penises’ sake, just because she doesn’t have one for her pleasure does not mean she should talk about it that way. Well, at least not that frequently.
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But then again, so what? Freedom of speech, Enida. Geeeeezzz! And just because you don’t talk about penis 24-7 does not mean you don’t think about it. Ohhh! Pleeeeease lah!
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Anyway, now that I have mentioned the word penis and got your attention, thanks to your sharp eyes… I have to tell you that it has become clear to me that many women in Malaysia are scared of being alone. Not all, not most. But many. Not many are contented staying single at any age whether they are virgin, have been holed by the proverbial squirrels, or at any point in time married to the squirrels who holed them or who wanted to.
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But that’s that. Many women are simply not happy with themselves being single. Oh yes I do know the loneliness, trust me. But what’s with the quest? Or maybe because I am surrounded by women who are happily single, I tend to not understand why a woman has to have a man. I may be alone, and sometimes lonely. But I am not looking for. I am just having a good time looking at.
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No, not at anybody’s penis either. Just at these single women on a serious quest for men.
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When I was staying in a single-room at uni, there was this quote on my softboard…
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“A woman without a man
is like a fish without a bicycle.”
~ Gloria Steinem
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Questa è Enida 
maksud gloria steinem, kita tak perlu berbasikal? hehehe kita jogging je ya!
What would that make a man without a woman be like?
Perhaps a man without a woman is like a bicycle without a fish. I am gone fishing. Hehe.