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When I Am

The brother gobbled up the Spaghetti ala Vongole di Veraci supper in a record time leaving her twirling and twisting the pasta onto the spoon ever so collectedly. I could almost hear what was coming, the way I could see the rise and fall of her eyebrows. She does that when she gets down there, deep in her thought, ready to shoot me with her hotter-than-the-sun questions.

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I was kind of not waiting, but nervously anticipating a question I can answer easily or run away from speedily.

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Kitreena: “Are you happy, Mom?”

Mommy: *stops breathing for 8.2571 seconds as her heart skips 2.272 beats*

Kitreena: “Mom? Did you hear me?”

Mommy: “Well, I kinda did.”

Kitreena: “So? What did I just ask you?”

Mommy: “I don’t know, what did you just ask me?”

Kitreena: “Are you happy?”

Mommy: “Happy with what?”

Kitreena: “Happy with what you’re doing?”

Mommy: “What am I doing?”

Kitreena: “You know… being a mom.”

Mommy: *smiles and is about to give the most honest answer but decides to remain smiling*

Kitreena: “I mean, are you happy taking care of me and Edrick?”

Mommy: *fakes a frown* “Of course I’m happy to be with you two. Why did you ask?”

Kitreena: “Because you don’t look like you’re happy.”

Mommy: *sits with her daughter wrapping an arm around her* “Are you happy, Monch?”

Kitreena: “I’m happy when I’m with you, Mom.”

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The rest of the conversation didn’t really matter anymore. My heart was warmer than the sun on its Summer Solstice Day.

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Mendua Cinta

“Janganlah kau bertanya tentang jarak setia. Cintaku ini buktinya, kasih.”

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Sampai gugur rambutku mengenang dikau, dan terpaksa ku beralih kepada formula Rambut Gugur Rejoice 3-dalam-1 baru. Dan sampai gatal hidungku menghidu bau hamis Nasi Kambing di Restoran Musafir. Kerana dikau lah itu. Dan juga sampai ku tertidur berendam airmata hingga ke pagi mendakap Bolster, bantal gulingku, mengenang dikau. Rindu.

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Oh Kitreena Enida Johnson, monchyku!

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Mommy: Edrick we’re going back to Malaysia today.

Edrick: Yayyyy! Mom I like Malaysia.

Mommy: You do, do you? What about Moscow? Wanna go back to Moscow?

Edrick: Not yet.

Mommy: Which one do you like more, Moscow or Malaysia?

Edrick: I like Moscow a lil bit.

Mommy: What about Malaysia?

Edrick: I like Malaysia a lot.

Mommy: So which one do you like more?

Edrick: I already told you Mom!

Mommy: Yeah you did but you didn’t.

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Edrick: What’s that Mom? Chilies?

Mommy: Yep, looks like chilies to me.

Edrick: What are you making with the chilies, Mom?

Mommy: Sambal tumis.

Edrick: Is it going to be spicy?

Mommy: Not overly spicy.

Edrick: I bet it’s gonna be 99 degrees spicy!

Mommy: 99 degrees?

Edrick: Yeah, 99 degrees. If it is 100 degrees you can’t even eat it. Because it’s too spicy, Mom!

Mommy: Oh really? Bring it on!

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Kitreena had left for school, leaving Edrick at the breakfast table chewing on the peanut butter and Nutella sandwich very very quietly, for once. I was in the kitchen, wiping the sink, enjoying the rare silence.

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Edrick: Mommy, munchkins live on the Munchkin Land, right?

Mommy: Huh? Who? *is lost in the TakMungkin Land

Edrick: Munchkiiiinnns. Those munchkiiinnns. They live on the Munchkin Land. Correct? *sounds irritated

Mommy: I suppose. Yeah.

Edrick: Because they are munchkins, they must be from Munchkin Land.

Mommy: If you say so. Okay. Is that where you are from?

Edrick:  Nope. I live in this old planet Earth now Mom.

Mommy: This old planet Earth huh?

Edrick: I mean, that’s where I came from. But I am on a different planet now.

Mommy: Oh wow! Isn’t that brilliant!

Edrick: Yeah, and I know how to go to the Munchkin Land Planet from Earth, Mom.

Mommy: You do? *is honestly amazed

Edrick: Yeah. First I need to get out of the Russian outer space. And then I need to launch my rocket to Munchkin Land Planet.

Mommy: I just lost you there, Monchy. Sorry, I am not following.

Edrick: Huh?

Mommy: Yeah, your turn to say huh! That’s right.

Edrick: But I’m still your Monchy, Mom.

Mommy: Then you’d better stick to the Russian outer space where I can see you. Drink your milk now, space man!

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Much of Me

Much of the things I know, I cannot see. As much of the things I can see, I know not their truth. So, this far… I have chosen to listen to my heart. Faith, they say, is always blind.

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Just like that one September morning when I woke up to the silently screaming voices telling me to go home to Mom. I just listened. The way a good child did, though as a child I never did listen. But this time I did go home to Mom… only to find out that I was to spend the last ten days of my life before I became motherless.

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For the two happy and healthy Monchies I treasure…
Happy Mother’s Day to me.

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Siri Bercakap Dedek-Kaka II

Kitreena lost her lunch box on Monday. It was a breaking news in our house, as one does not lose one’s lunch box or it will be the talk of the century. Kitreena is only in Grade One and this is her second lunch box lost.

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Edrick: How come you lost your lunch box, Kaka?

Kitreena: I didn’t lose it. I just couldn’t see it in my locker at school.

Edrick: But you didn’t bring it home. So you lost it.

Kitreena: Oh stop teasing me. Someday you will lose your lunch box too!

Edrick: No I won’t!

Kitreena: Yes you will. I just know it!

Edrick: No I won’t!

Kitreena: Yes you will. We’ll see!

Edrick: No I won’t. We’ll see!

Kitreena: Yes you will.

Mommy: Ehhhh sudahhh! Siapa yang ilang lunch box agik, kelak kubungkus lunch nya with daun pisang, understand? (Who loses the lunch box next will have his/her lunch wrapped with banana leaf, understand?) *will have to find banana seeds asap*

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Siri Bercakap Dengan Edrick VIII

After the morning bath…

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Edrick: Mom, why am I getting dressed?

Mommy: Entah lah. Why?

Edrick: So I won’t look too bugil?

Mommy: Ha ha ha ha ha ha!

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Entah lah = I don’t know

bugil = naked

Ha ha ha ha ha ha = can’t help feeling silly (very silly)

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Miloneum

I actually did look, one night, for something to drink other than coffee. But I wasn’t going to crawl into Mom’s kitchen cabinet, for the fear of finding more drinks other than coffee. Not that I mind other drinks. Hehe. Chai, perhaps?

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Lo and behold, the very next evening, Mom recalled that she had some hot chocolate powder in her storage. I guess she could smell that I was thirsty for something more. Something else.

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Yes, ladies, gentlemen and you too, Jimmy… my Mom (mother-in-law) had a jar of chocolate-malt drink mix she had been keeping since 2006. For me, alright! Maybe I should have gone crawling into her kitchen cabinet.

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It was MILO! Four miloneums old. But hey, I am still alive.

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Sarang Tebuan Jangan Di…

Dear Sisters,
I was quick to have suspected Kitreena to begin the hitting. And when I read this email from Tia’s mom, I felt bad and relieved both at the same time! I felt bad for having the doubt that my gentle Kitreena would be the one to lose it. In fact, I grilled her to tell me what she did to Tia. Well, she did kick Tia on a leg. But that was because Tia hit Kitreena first with a swimming bag – right on the face!

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If I were to tell a tale, so be it. And if I were to believe only the one side of the story, so what? But according to Kitreena, it all started with Tia teasing, calling her ‘a baby’. Kitreena asked Tia to stop many times, but Tia kept at it. It was either Kitreena kicked the teaser on the leg first, or said something equally hurtful that triggered Tia to whip Kitreena in the face… I wouldn’t know. But in a way, it was a relief that Kit stood up for herself to the bully.

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Yes it has been going on for a while. As much as I was very concerned with the disturbing stories Kit came home crying about, I was just going to let these kids learn to resolve their issues. Both Kristy (Tia’s Mom) and I noticed right from day one, that the two girls are simply too similar in characters and personality to suit each other. But again, we thought all they needed was time.

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I noticed Kitreena was growing uneasy and almost ‘malas’ when she had to walk with Tia to school. It was like she was looking forward to days when Tia was not well, or days when they had different after-school activities. Kitreena seriously was needing a break. And I… I wasn’t listening close enough.

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And now this. It didn’t surprise me, but I take it as a sign that I need to learn to listen to Kitreena and listen for what she is not able to tell. Today, Friday, Tia is throwing a birthday party at The Pokrovsky Hall that is going to be turned into a Hawaiian Luau. Kitreena is not interested whatsoever. Point blank-cold turkey-drop dead-get lost kind of not interested. The whole hall can turn into Hawaiian Kingdom, for all she cares. She even gave me an excuse that she is definitely going to be too tired to go. She needs to go to bed early, she said. Since we’re leaving Pokrovsky at 4am for the airport Saturday. Chissss! Nampak sangat!

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I have yet to talk to Kristy and Scott. But I have decided that the girls should not be walking to and from school together from now on. Not for quite a while, at least. They obviously need some space, and some time – away from each other.

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I sound so lah serious tulis email ni kan?

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Heheheheheheheeh! I love you girls!

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Makcik Garang Rumah #9,
Me. Yes, me!
Questa è Enida.

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